While I was walking, I stopped for a while and thought of the things I don’t have. Then I realized that the happiest moment of all people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose it, but it’s also true that we know what we’ve been missing until it arrives.
At the gateway of my heart, I put a sign that says, “No Trespassing” but love says came laughing and said, “I enter everywhere”. Love knows no reasons, love knows no lies, love defies all reasons. Love has no eyes. But love is not blind- love sees, but it does not mind. Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, and the romance in the relationship and you find out that you still care for that person. Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength. But sometimes the things that give you joy and strength can also hurt you in the end. It starts with a smile, develops with a kiss, and ends with a tear.
When you love, you must not expect something in return. If you do, you’re not loving but investing. If you love, you must prepare to accept the pain. For if you accept happiness, you’re not loving but using. Don’t go for looks, it can deceive; don’t go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because only smile inches a day seem bright. The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly on them and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them Never try to impress someone to make her fall in love with you, because when you do, you’ll have to keep that standard for the rest of your life. A sad thing about life is that when you meet someone who means a lot to you, you’ll find out in the end that it was never bound to be and you just have to let her go. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we should know to be grateful for the gift. We oftentimes don’t see the reason why we don’t always get what we want, but in the end of it all, we realize what we wanted wasn’t meant for us after all.
Everything happens only for a reason. When you feel down because you didn’t get what you wanted, just sit tight and be happy because Gods thinking of something better for you. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is the most painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel. It’s always better to have found the courage to love even if you lose it in the end and rather than never finding love because you were too afraid to face its challenge, the greatest regrets in our lives are the risk we did not take. If you think something will make you happy, go for it. Remember that you pass this way only once. Love no matter how hard you find it, you won't see it. No matter how hard you try, you won’t get it. But when you’re about to give up, it comes. Sometimes the love we are looking for is right in front of us, too close to the eyes to see. So close to your eyes and let your heart see itself. There are things you love to hear, but you can never hear it from the person who says with his heart. Just because someone does not love you the way you want, it doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have. There are so many stars in the sky, only some radiant enough to be noticed. Among those you choose to ignore is the one who is willing to shine for you forever even if your glance remains elsewhere. God never closes the door without opening the window. He always gives us something better when He takes something away.
The heartbreak will last as long as you want and cut deep as you allow them to go; the challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but learn from them. In the relationships, thank God when you’re hurt and when you cry. There you are given a chance to measure the importance of relationship to that person and of yourself… When you grow… you don’t become a better person because you suffered. We have no right to ask when sorrow comes, “Why this happened to me?” Unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way. When God puts tears in your eyes, it’s because He wants to put rainbows in your heart. There are things that we never want to let go of people, we never want to leave behind, but keep in mind that letting go is not the end of the world. It’s the beginning of a new life. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past. You can’t go on well in life when you can’t let go of your past failures and heartaches. To let go is not to deny, but to accept. To let go is not to regret the past, but to grow and to live for the future. To let go is to fear less and love more. Don’t be afraid to break someone’s heart or leave your heart broken because that’s how relationship when you are young- they are stepping stones for the main one. Follow your heart. It might not always right, but despite the pain, you’ll have that memory that will make you smile even at once and every rare while. It is better to have the person you love right now, than have them later and lost them forever.
Love has its time, season and own reasons. You can’t ask it to say, you can only embrace, and it is as it comes and be glad that for a moment in your life it was yours. Each of us is given a pocketful of time to spend; however we may. We use what we will. We waste what we will. But we can never get back a day. Don’t let each moment pass you by, for within the twinkling of an eye, that moment, shall go and the feelings shall die. It might be too late to open your eyes. Don’t be so busy planning the life you are going to have that you fail to appreciate the one that you’ve already been given. Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be; because you only have life and one chance to do all things you want in life. We are never given dreams without the power to make it come true.